ZOOM HYMEN
Hi, my name is Dicky and I go to school in Budapest, Hungary. In case you are wondering, my brother gave me this nickname when I was real little. Ever since I turned 16 I dreamt about posing in the nude, and showing the cameraman what I have between my legs. I daydreamed about a man or several men undressing me and taking my picture. It really turned me on! To be honest, I have masturbated many times, using a little bottle, and dream about doing this. But I could only dream about this until I turned 18. Now I can finally pose in the nude and do more!
He asked me do much more than just pose. He spread my legs apart and inserted a dildo. He broke my cherry! Even though the hymen bled, he did not stop. He continued to move the dildo in and out, until I had an orgasm.
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HER ZOOM HYMEN PHOTOS AND PHOTOS OTHER VIRGIN GIRL ONLY OUR MEMBERS
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Hymen: a thin membrane that surrounds the opening to a young woman’s vagina. Hymens can come in different shapes. The most common hymen is shaped like a half moon. This shape allows menstrual blood to flow out of a girl’s vagina.
Imperforate hymen: An imperforate hymen can be diagnosed at birth but sometimes the diagnosis isn’t made until the teen years. An imperforate hymen is a thin membrane that completely covers the opening to a young girl’s or young woman’s vagina. Menstrual blood cannot flow out of the vulva. This usually causes the blood to back up into the vagina and the abdomen (belly) resulting in abdominal and/or back pain. Some teens may also have pain with bowel movements and difficulty passing urine.
The treatment for an imperforate hymen is minor surgery to remove the extra hymenal tissue and create a normal sized vaginal opening so that menstrual blood can flow out of the vagina.
Microperforate hymen: A microperforate hymen is a thin membrane that almost completely covers the opening to a young women’s vagina. Some menstrual blood may be able to flow out of the vagina but the opening is very small. A teen with a microperforate hymen usually will not be able to get a tampon into her vagina and may not realize that she has a very tiny opening. If she is able to put a tampon into her vagina she may not be able to remove it when it becomes filled with blood. The treatment is minor surgery to remove the extra hymenal tissue making a normal sized opening for menstrual blood to flow out.
Septate hymen: A septate hymen is when the thin hymenal membrane has a band of extra tissue in the middle that causes two small vaginal openings instead of one. Teens with a septate hymen may have trouble getting a tampon in or trouble getting a tampon out. The treatment for a septate hymen is minor surgery to remove the extra band of tissue and create a normal sized vaginal opening.
At what age should a girl or woman be before starting to explore sex? The social mores of each girl’s family, community, and society will likely determine when she is permitted to become sexually active. Western society certainly does not permit girls to be sexually active right out of the womb. Two factors, puberty and peer pressure, usually determine the age at which girls become sexually active. Whether a girl’s female friends are sexually active or not plays a larger role than puberty. The younger a girl is when she enters puberty the younger she likely is when she becomes sexually active. This is because her secondary sexual characteristics, namely breasts, attract the attention of older boys, and perhaps because she is not able to ignore her developing sex drive indefinitely. She is often less reluctant to have sex than are older girls.
In general, the longer a young woman waits to explore partnered sex the better off she is. The reason young women should postpone partnered sex is because our society does not prepare them properly for it, not because it is natural for them to wait. We interrupt or preempt the normal sexual development of our girls at birth and then try to postpone it until later in life, when they are at least eighteen and married. When we do return their sexuality we usually hurry it along. Perhaps expecting them to become fully sexual the night of their wedding. When a teenage girl expresses an interest in partnered sex, the pressure is on for her to engage in intercourse. Even if she does other sexual activities in order to postpone this event, it usually occurs too soon. During normal sexual development there would be ten to fifteen years between the times she started exploring sex and her first experience with intercourse. In our society that time span is anywhere from a few minutes to at most a few years.
Women who did become sexually active at a young age usually wish they had waited longer to do so, even if they have positive feelings about those early experiences. Most of these women look back and realize they just were not ready to become sexually active when they did. The reason they were not ready is they did not know enough about sex, and as a result, it was not as enjoyable as it could have been. They usually did not fully develop their basic sexual skills until five, ten, or even twenty years after they started engaging in intercourse. They probably did not masturbate and may have only dabbled in mutual masturbation and oral sex. They did not fully develop these basic skills since they were not supposed to be necessary. While they may have enjoyed sex on an emotional level, orgasm was often absent. This often left them wondering, “Is that all there is?” The expected fireworks were absent.
I wish I could tell young women who read this exactly when they should start exploring their sexuality with a partner, but I cannot. It depends on each young woman’s individual situation. If your parents permitted you to be sexual as a child, you may be sexually active long before you are even able to read this. On the other hand, if you live in a family or community that does not permit young women to be sexual, the social ramifications of your becoming sexual, no matter how much you may desire to, could cause you more harm than good. Sometimes, even if sex is not wrong, it is not right either.
Each woman must determine for herself the right time, without being selfish. If you are not sure if you are ready, then you are not ready and need to wait. It certainly does not harm a young woman to wait until she is in her twenties to start exploring her sexuality with a partner. If anything, given our current society and the risks involved, namely sexually transmitted diseases like AIDS, it’s far better for women to wait. I’m not saying teenage girls should not have sex with a partner, just that is usually a wiser choice if they decide not to. Each girl needs to make this decision for herself.
A girl or woman who has not permitted a male partner to insert his penis into her vagina is commonly accepted to be a virgin. Others define a virgin as any girl or woman who has not had sexual contact with another person, and who has not explored her own body as well. Strict religious doctrines require virgins to not only forgo physical sex but also sexual thought. Still others say a virgin is a girl or woman who has an intact hymen Your definition of a virgin depends on your point of view.
There are always exceptions to every definition of what constitutes a virgin. The above definitions do not take into account homosexuals and intersexed individuals. At what point does a lesbian become a non-virgin? If an intersexed individual without a vagina accepts a female identity will she always be a virgin? If a girl is born without a hymen is she never a virgin? What about sexually abused girls and raped teens? If you did not consent is that the same as consenting? If a bi-sexual teen is a “technical virgin,” a person who engages in sexual touching and/or oral sex but not vaginal intercourse, still a virgin even if she has had twenty sexual partners? Virginity is a spiritual attribute not a physical one. A virgin and virginity are what you believe them to be.
Since virginity is a spiritual attribute a woman can be a virgin more than once in her lifetime, as odd as that may sound. The best example of this may be the young teen that tries intercourse once and realizes she was not really ready, it was not as enjoyable as she had hoped, or that it was simply a mistake, and does not engage in intercourse again for several years. As time goes by her reluctance to engage in intercourse may increase, or becomes greater than it ever was, because she comes to expect more. From an emotional point of view she is a virgin; with the same desires and apprehensions as a woman who has never engaged in intercourse.
It appears that many if not most people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the vagina. It is, as the photographs and illustrations on this page reveal, part of the vulva, external genital organs. It is located outside the vagina. The hymen is a layer of tissue that partially conceals the vaginal orifice of some girls and women. The hymen is also referred to as a girl’s “cherry” or maidenhead.
During the early stages of fetal development there is no opening into the vagina. The layer of tissue that conceals the vagina at this time usually divides incompletely prior to birth. The size and shape of this opening or openings varies greatly from one girl to the next. There are girls who do not have a hymen at birth, as the tissue divides completely while they are still in the womb. Sometimes, this formation of an opening does not occur, resulting in an imperforated hymen. A doctor should examine an infant girl’s vulva soon after birth to ensure her hymen is not imperforated, as should a girl’s parents. (If menses is not permitted to flow freely from the body, extreme pain and cramping can result during menarche; a girl’s first menstrual period.)
The tissues of the vulva are generally very thin and delicate prior to puberty. Any activity that places tension on the vulvar tissues may stretch or tear the hymen. As a result, many girls and teens tear or otherwise dilate their hymen while engaging in physical activities such sports, horseback riding, inserting and removing tampons, and while masturbating. A girl may not know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood loss or pain experienced during this event. It may also occur when she is too young to remember or understand what has occurred.
The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates a girl’s virginal state. No one can determine by physical examination alone whether a woman or teen has engaged in vaginal intercourse. Only about 50% of teens and women experience bleeding the first time they have intercourse, so blood stained bed sheets are not a reliable indicator of prior virginity. The hymen of some women tear on more than one occasion. There are even hymen that are elastic enough to permit a penis to enter without tearing, or tear only partially. This is usually true only if the dilation first occurs very gradually with fingers or other objects over an extended period of time. Virginity is a spiritual attribute, not a physical one.
The hymen does not magically disappear when something is inserted into the vagina, it will only stretch or tear sufficiently to permit entry of whatever is being inserted. If for example, a teen inserts two fingers into her vagina while masturbating, her hymen may still tear when she has vaginal intercourse for the first time, since the average penis is larger than her two fingers. A woman who has had vaginal intercourse may still have hymeneal tissue present; this remaining tissue can be the cause of pain during intercourse. If a woman’s current partner has a larger penis than her prior partners, or a couple tries a new technique or position during intercourse, her hymen may tear again, or for the first time. When doctors examine preadolescent and adolescent girls for evidence of sexual abuse, they look for injuries to the hymen; the hymen may still be intact except for a single tear. Remnants of the hymen are usually present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.
More photographs of the hymen can be seen in the medical article addressing childhood sex abuse linked to below:
